儿子在超市偷吃糖,妈妈的做法令人敬佩,孩子偷东西家长怎么办?

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孩子年纪小,有时候还不懂事,对于拿别人东西的行为,他们不明白其严重性。李女士的儿子今年六岁,刚读幼儿园。然而,前几天发生的一件事情,彻底让李女士生气了。

前不久,李女士像往常一样带着儿子去超市购物。在买东西的时候,儿子闹着要买糖。想起儿子已经长蛀牙了,吃太多甜食对他并没有好处,李女士就没答应孩子的要求。和以往不一样,儿子被拒绝后却没有哭闹,反而是安安静静的跟在一旁。

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?谁知,等结账出来的时候,李女士却发现儿子手里拿着一颗棒棒糖追问之下,他才支支吾吾的说:是在超市里拿的“小时偷针,大时偷金”,李女士意识到了问题的严重性,赶紧带着儿子返回超市去结账,并让儿子向超市的工作人员道歉并承认错误。

李女士回到家里告诉孩子,这根1.5元的棒棒糖妈妈并没有同意给他买,是儿子自己的行为,所以棒棒糖的钱要让孩子自己承担,并且列出了规定,给妈妈洗一次碗2角钱,扫一次地2角钱,倒一次垃圾1角钱,孩子要用自己的劳动来“偿还”这1.5元.2d49a369932849d18b1146dceb6935f0

1.明确自己的态度

当发现孩子有偷窃的行为时,无论偷的东西价值是大还是小,也不管孩子是无心还是故意的,家长都应该立即重视起来,并向他们明确摆明自己的态度,严厉告诉孩子这样的做法是不对的,有必要的话,可以适当的给他们一些惩罚。

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2. Reasonably meet the child's requirements

Usually when children are found to have theft, they usually indicate that they have a desire for something. If other children have it, but they don't, it will easily make them feel insecure and happy. If the child likes something that the family can afford, parents can reasonably agree to their request. Doing so will not only help to enhance the child's well-being, but also allow the child to feel the love of the parents and minimize the probability of the child making mistakes.

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3. Establish correct values for children and establish rules and regulations for family members

Because there is no concept of "stealing" and "taking", causing the child to steal something else, he still does not realize that he has done something wrong. If the parents move directly to the child, the effect is very small, and even the distance between the child and the parent will be extended.

At this time, parents can analyze with their children what is wrong with their behavior. Regardless of the responsibility, the child must bear this responsibility and give certain punishments so that the child will remember the lesson.

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If you find out that your child has stolen something, how would you educate your child? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!

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